The Cost of Rule-Breaking

Meidung, or shunning, is no light consequence. Those who break the community’s strict rules find themselves on the social sidelines, with friends and family acting like they’re invisible at Sunday lunch. It sounds harsh, but it’s a serious motivator to stick to a simpler lifestyle that doesn’t involve shopping sprees or splurging on flashy toys.

This practice shows that accountability can curb reckless spending. If one risks being ignored over that impulse jet ski purchase, saying no gets a lot easier. The Amish remind us that sometimes a little self-control—and the occasional side-eye from neighbors—keeps finances in check and savings safe.